My goodness....Many ideas and current affairs to write about. It's not every week that the execution-style murder of a federal judge's family takes place in one's neighborhood. On Tuesday morning I heard something on the radio about a judge's family being killed; around dusk my neighbor Brian stopped by and mentioned that the crime had taken place in the neighborhood and he thought maybe even on our block. I went online to read more about the story, which seemed ghoulish at first, then devastatingly sad, then an outrageous assault on a just society. By now, the killings and the investigation have been the top story in the local news every night for a solid week, people I talk to in other parts of the country have heard reports about them. The media truly does shape our experience. I have a tendency to resist forceful claims for the power of "the media," who I think are asked to do too much explanatory work, but it IS really powerful in specific, path-dependent kinds of ways. I had a conversation with Justin recently about what he called a kind of nexus between public school districts and the local TV news crews in constructing municipal-level public spheres. Later today, with Gerard and Natalie, I had a conversation about IMing being a form of social interaction uniquely well-suited to the problems of the pre-teen and teenager living in the suburbs, unable to get around except by car, unable to drive herself yet, in those hours from the late afternoon until bedtime.
Just now, I read that police were hopeful that Sunday's "America's Most Wanted," which would profile the Lefkow case, would manage to generate a crucial tip from a viewer, as the show has supposedly done many times in the past.
It has occurred to me, when I've channel-surfed through an extreme makevoer show, that really the next step would be for there to be reality shows as mechanisms for distributing health insurance and other highly valued but scarce goods and services fairly. The point of the reality show is to insert a game of chance into some stage, moment, problem, or dilemma of our lives that ordinarily involves a great deal of ordinary personal struggle and difficulty. There is a historian named Jackson Lears who likes to write about games of chance, and I think reality shows are actually a good example of the kind of thing he means.
Every day for the last week, from the afternoon rush hour until late at night, there have been TV trucks parked along Foster Avenue with those peculiar TV reporter antennas that accompany a scene marked off as newsworthy. For the first two days, the entire block of Lakewood Avenue, plus the alley running behind the Lefkows' house, were completely cordoned off by an unbelievable number of police cars. The sheer volume and pace of the unfolding law enforcement response was quite remarkable. They really don't have a lot to go on - basically some cigarette butts and one fingerprint - but they're apparently collecting security camera footage from convenience and liquor stores for many blocks in every direction, in the hope that some clue might be yielded.

Speaking of official responses, a couple of regular readers of the blog have written in to introduce themselves to me, and have let me know about a legislative effort to create civil unions in Connecticut, the legal case now facing the Washington State Supreme Court, and the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court's decision to hear a challenge to the early 20th-century law that Governor Romney has been using in order to block the issuance of marriage licenses to same-sex couples who do not reside or "intend to reside" in Massachusetts. The use of this law has seemingly been used to prevent Massachusetts from becoming a "gay marriage mill" for the rest of the country, as (according to Hendrik Hartog's study of 19th-century marriage) a succession of states served in turn as "divorce mills" for the rest of the country, attracting those who wanted out of the marriage contract and had no other way to get out of it than to move to another state.
It's striking how central the politics of states' rights are to the working out of the marriage issue - that both sides of the emerging marriage debate, that is, seem to believe that their "section," if you will, is suffering a truly unjust fate at the hands of the other. Those of us who are pleased to live in the five or six states with a reasonably plausible shot at seeing both courtroom and legislative progress on the marriage issue in the coming years feel that the federal Defense of Marriage Act infringes on our right to decide marriage policies locally and have them awarded "full faith and credit" by the other states as the Constitution seems to demand. (Except, it turns out, "full faith and credit" has never been interpreted as extending to the domain of marriage.) And certainly the red-staters think that other states (MA) and even other
countries that a number of them have been writing letters to (Canada)...these places are vastly overstepping their own boundaries by offending their own strongly-held beliefs about the depth of Jesus' opposition to same-sex marriage.
Recently two very good gay male friends of mine have told each me that he and his boyfriend have decided to become serious, perhaps to be partners rather than simply boyfriends, and perhaps even thinking about getting married. It's pretty nutty-sounding, on one level, and yet pleasurable to hear just how nonchalantly so many gay people seem to have become about their confidence that they will win the right to marry.
Why is marriage better than civil unions? I had an argument with Gerard tonight about gay marriage and why we shouldn't be pushing for civil unions that include "all the rights" of marriage. I told him that the countries that have civil unions like Britain France and Belgium, marriage isn't used as a locus for the allocation and distribution of resources, such as corporate health insurance policies and federal Social Security payments, in the way that it is in the United States. That is, in those western European social democracies, where people actually
have social rights and a welfare state, no one faces the problem of gaining or losing access to health insurance based on the (non)recognition of one's relationship. In this country, "the benefits" of marriage are lodged in so many nooks and crannies of corporate, university, and agency policies regarding employment, health care, birth, death, retirement, medical decision-making, liability, and so on; the people who endlessly tell you that married people are conferred 847 separate rights in the U.S. code are, in a certain sense, very right. (I figured that I would automatically win the argument with Gerard if I could manage to talk about how much better western Europe is.)
A note to Ryan: I read your email and I'll write back very soon, probably tomorrow. Thanks!